A child should always receive a clear warning before any offense that might merit a spanking and understand why they are receiving this disciplinary action. The focus is taken off the mistake and put on taking responsibility for repairing it. She finally stayed down, but i feel awful. I assure you that after listening to one of these classes and putting in a little effort to follow the instruction you will see the results you are looking for. Other ways to discipline kids effectively include using timeouts, withholding privileges, modeling appropriate behavior like self-control , and helping kids understand the connection between actions and consequences. But then, what are your other options?
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How can I discipline my child without spanking? If your child feels that the discipline was a strike on the love you possess for them then it will affect them negatively. Have family rules respect each other and choices, opinion, etc. Shabby on July 22, at 4: You have to be calm whenever punishment is given. According to a study published in the Journal of American Academy of Pediatrics , there are serious consequences to applying physical punishment to kids. My little brothers were not spanked and are still terrors that often do not listen to my parents, I believe they will be fine though in the long run.
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Everything that gets into his hands. I spank my child when he acts out or refuses to mind. There is also increasing global recognition of the rights of children to protection and dignity, as inscribed in the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child and in targets within the UN Sustainable Development Goals SDGs to eliminate violence. Finally, demonstrate to your child with your own actions the kind of behavior you want from him. Spanking is just a part of my ethnicity as most hispanic people have a funny story about being spanked with a chancleta or anything their grandmother had near. I am so glad that I did.
Wow, so many different opinions to this topic and I agree with both sides, spanking vs positive parenting. Ness on September 8, at Talk to her about her feelings as well. People saying that spanking hurt them in the long run and made them fearful, while others were the opposite. Think of other solutions. You do not usually NEED to hit, and the consequences of having hit the child, like that battering ram, will only result in further damage.
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